In my personal letter that is posted on this site and heard around the world, I showed video of O'Neal romping on the beach with a brunette as well as some other unidentified women. O’Neal during this time was allegedly, asking a 20 year old for sex acts in exchange for a car. To my knowledge that case is still pending, now O'Neal is not married and could not marry Farrah as she could not or did not accept his proposal. However, that is beside the point, O'Neal, is constantly on TV, and in news broadcasts crying and stating Farrah is the love of his life. My issue has always been, if Farrah is the love of his life, life partner, soul mate, or what other new word definition you can come up with to describe your relationship. Let me make this clear, only a low life, morally bankrupt individual, romps on the beach with other women, while the soul mate is in a bed dying of cancer. It is obscene that a person would go on TV expressing his undying love while frolicking with other women. This is a lack of respect for the woman herself, and no different than what Senator Edwards pulled. I am weary of this obscenity of a human being (Ryan O’Neal) being taken seriously or even getting his opinion printed let alone even entertained. There are many people out there, (that have written me) that believe the same thing. The big question is why is the evidence, news reports, etc being ignored for the statements of this individual.
Additionally, we brought to the attention of everyone that Alana is actually the woman she is exposed to be. We alerted everyone on the statements that were made by Alana, the camera person, her ethics etc. to her motives for cashing in on this tragedy. We exposed the fact that the diary was missing, statement made on tape within the journal, eyewitness etc all stating the same thing. All ignored.
My original question stands. Who moved the rock and let these people crawl out. Who does this? It just amazes me.
Griffin O’Neal and Greg Lott are working very hard to expose the truth. They should be listened too and applauded. This takes strength, and the man deserves our respect.
Dr, Miller.
ReplyDeleteThey both have my respect.
I was even called DERRANGED by A KS from THE SUNSHINE STATE- Well what KS dosent get is the fact that yes, I tune in, I STAY TUNED IN- So as to keep any posotive on behalf of oneal interfered. So as this person who claims to look-PEEP in on ocasion, let's remember, THEY MIGHT BE HERE JUST AS OFTEN AS I AM- PLUS GREG LOTT HAS LITERALY BEEN ATTACKED AS A CROOK, THREATENED BY THE FBI, AND PEOPLE ARE FIGHTING OVER A DAMN 62.00 PHOTO BOUGHT ON MAY 15TH- PLEASE. You bet I will be here, I will be here until GREG LOTT IS VINDICATED, and YES I AM FULL OF HUMOR, AND CAN BE FULL OF JOKES, But in all HONESTY ----Greg Lott is telling the truth, I WAS IN TEXAS Then, Im here now , I have had the privaledge of knowing of this for years- AND KNEW- If you read back in old post, THAT FARRAH WANTED RED TO HAVE A FAMILY -SHE DID HER BEST- So If Redmond has questioned his mothers whereabout's , YOU CAN BET GREG LOTT IS NOT FAR BEHIND.
So for those of you again who come to question Greg, or call any of us DERANGED, WELL ALWAYS KNOW Their are OTHER BLOGS with SUZY HOME MAKER, AND BETTY CROCKER JUST FOR YOU, So SLAP THE WRINKLES OUTTA YOUR SKIRTS AND FINS THAT FEATHER DUSTER IF YOU CANT STAND THE FACTS-
TEXBOY-"GREG"
BOO HOOO, , TEXBOY. How Silly this all is. Farrah is LEGEND AND A ICON, who I truely respect, ALONG with this i respect her choices to have ALANA & RYAN in her life. I also accept her having Mr. Lott in her life, BUT, and this is a big BUT, SHE IS NOT HERE TO ADMIT HE WAS PART OF HER LIFE ! Media , print and interviews with our LOVELY FARRAH for the past 30 odd years, ALL HAVE RYAN & ALANA in her life. I personally will not belittle Mr Lott, however, WHY IS THIS BLOG SO AGAINST WHAT FARRAH spoke about, and that being she loved Ryan (in her own way) and her friendship w. Alana !! If we love farrah we would respect that she WELCOMED these 2 into her life. I have seen this written here before, so this comment i guess is not new news, but WAKE UP PEOPLE its a fact ! Seems you all want to believe the word of Mr Lott and now Griffin, BUT do you really know their words are truthful either? Let me answer that, NO, YOU DONT KNOW !!
ReplyDeleteFARRAH, REST IN PEACE, Your Fans LOVE AND MISS YOU.
Signed BIG FAN
David
BIG FAN David,
ReplyDeleteIt's not Greg Lott or Dr. Miller saying O'Neal betrayed Farrah, it's news organizations like Bild magazine, a magazine in Germany.
Since Farrah's Story highlighted the German clinics, the Germans have an interest apparently in Farrah's Story and the statements made by O'Neal.
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Farrah Fawcett's happy widower
Ryan O’Neal seen with mystery brunette eight days after funeral
By PHILIPP JENSSEN
Ryan O'Neal has been spotted numerous times with a mysterious brunette on his arm since the death of his long-term partner Farrah Fawcett - does he have a new girlfriend?
In the eight days since the 'Charlie's Angels' star's funeral, it seems the widower has not been able to stop smiling.
The actor even brought his new girl to the actress’ memorial service and they were later spotted leaving the ceremony together.
A few days later paparazzi snapped the pair enjoying themselves on Malibu Beach.
Now new photos have emerged of the couple walking arm in arm like a pair of newly weds.
When O’Neal (68) saw the photographer his relaxed laugh disappeared.
He looked ruffled and appeared to try and distance himself from the mystery beauty.
Is he still mourning the death of the woman whom he claimed he wanted to marry on her death bed?
O’Neal’s son Griffin does not think so.
In an interview the 44-year-old said that his dad returned to the iconic actress not out of love but to improve his image.
Ryan has denied the claim.
A Hollywood insider told BILD:
"The girl is O’Neal’s girlfriend. He only used Farrah to get some press."
Something which the happy widower has definitely managed…
http://www.bild.de/BILD/news/bild-english/celebrity-gossip/2009/07/09/ryan-o-neal-happy-widower/eight-days-after-farrah-fawcetts-funeral-actor-flirts-with-mystery-brunette-girl.html
Angel Charlie, thank you !
ReplyDeleteYep, the news cannot even change some people
and their feelings.
The shame of it is Griffen also spent over 40 years with this man, who is his father, well aside from the distance's they have had. Tatum truly loved Farrah in the end, and that took years for her to do. She drove a long distance to make peace, and offer help as well. Griffen, and Tatum only showed up at the funeral to pay respect. Ryan would not have a funeral without one of his children being their. My guess is only a guess but Tatum has made peace with her sad childhood, and in treatment learned to move on, and Alana possibly siggested it was a good public promo to have Tatum their. Griffen loved Farrah, but as I look at the photo's of a man who traveled over 300 miles with a wife and Child, a baby who will one day see this it was sick.Atleast comfort the baby, but as we learned today ryan did not like to be disturbed or distracted with his own children. You are so correct that Germany has alot of information, but again who tipped off the photographers in the last years of Farrahs life- I still wonder where alana found time to write a diary , and film - this is almost as sad to believe as her so called honor to Farrah.
Texboy
The Inside Edition show included video in its July 1 show of O'Neal and his mystery brunette filmed the night of Farrah's funeral as O'Neal had dinner with her in Malibu.
ReplyDeleteBild.com just reported that O'Neal had the mystery brunette at Farrah's funeral and left with after the funeral as well as all the photographs they took of her and him on the beach at his Malibu pad.
It's hard to believe his claim that he's not going to know what to do without her (Farrah) when she's gone.
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Farrah Fawcett s Funeral
http://www.insideedition.com/storyprint.aspx?SpecialReportID=3099
ORIGINAL AIRDATE: 7/1/2009
Actress Farrah Fawcett was laid to rest after family and friends paid their respects at a private funeral in Los Angeles, California on July 1st.
On the day he bid his heartbreaking goodbye to his longtime love Farrah Fawcett, there was new family drama for Ryan O'Neal.
"I'm not allowed in," O'Neal's estranged son Griffin told INSIDE EDITION, saying he was kicked out of the funeral at his father Ryan's request. "We drove 300 miles to get here."
Griffin went to the church with his wife and young son, and he spent several minutes talking to a security guard and making calls on his cell phone.
Despite several attempts, he was not allowed in.
"I was here to say goodbye to a person I had lived with and loved for 33 years and it breaks my heart," he said.
Griffin has been publicly feuding with his father for years.
He says the two haven't spoken since 2007 when Griffin says Ryan fired a gun at him during an argument at Farrah's 60th birthday party. Ryan says he fired a shot in self-defense and criminal charges were dropped.
Still, Griffin says he loved Farrah and is devastated that he couldn't say goodbye.
"She's mad right now, in that casket, she's mad that I'm not in there," Griffin told INSIDE EDITION's Megan Alexander outside the church.
Ryan O'Neal talked about banning Griffin from the funeral later that night, as he was leaving a Malibu restaurant where he ate dinner with a mystery brunette.
Inside his limo, O'Neal was also seen sharing a kiss with an unknown woman.
Ryan O Neal - bouncing back from grief?
ReplyDeletehttp://www.zimbio.com/Farrah+Fawcett/articles/1y5yMfpjzEw/Ryan+O+Neal+bouncing+back+grief
Written by Grobianus on Jul-10-09 11:21am
From: wondertrash.blogspot.com
Bild.com is reporting that Ryan O Neal is moving on with a 'mystery brunette' only days after Farrah Fawcett's funeral.
In fact the pair were living it up on the beach together, & here's the photo!
I'm sure his work in Love Story helped to prepare him for dealing with this kind of grief.
Now Bild quotes Ryan's son Griffith as saying that Ryan went back with Farrah not out of love, but to improve his image & to get publicity.
There's plenty of bad blood between Ryan & Griffith so he might not be the most credible source.
I think that the last time they met face to face was in court when Ryan was charged with discharging a firearm in Griffith's direction.
Ryan had gone out and left Redmond in the care of his half brother with express instructions not to let the lad do drugs.
When he returned he found that Griff had tied his little brother to a chair.
Ryan flipped out and had at Griff.
Griff grabbed up a fire place poker to defend himself, and that's when Ryan went to the bedroom to get his gun.
Griff's girlfriend at the time was injured in the scuffle, though it was only a 'flesh wound'.
Never a dull moment with the O Neal's -
I just hope that this mystery brunette knows what she's getting herself into.
She would if she read Wondertrash!
Nice try, but you're gonna have to do better than that...In Touch magazine and BILD??? These are TABOIDS, not reliable news sources.
ReplyDeleteCould the brunette you keep mentioning be the same one in the video on TMZ.com under 'Ryan O'Neal "It's hard to Believe" that he introduces to the camera man as "Stephanie, that works for me, along with his granson, Shawn McEnroe"??
ANGEL CHARLIE,
ReplyDeleteSo true, and for once I have to believe these reports.
i NOW SAY IN RESPECT FOR fARRAH, SHE HAS SHOWN JUST HOW STRONG SHE WAS TO GO BACK TO COMFORT THIS SICK MAN, after he was diagnosed with Luckemia. She had to know in the years she was with him ! Farrah was said to have been molested as a child in Texas, and I have to thnk this is why the men in her PHOTO LIFE , HER LALA LAND LIFE were the likes of oneal, and James Orr, both abusive, tempermental. I will not go in to profile a rape victim, but it is said they either seek help, or they fall into a pattern of these kind of men. I have seen She and Greg Lott, trust me their photos ,and smiles tell alot. Her smile with ryan was not truly real until after she left him, and returned, leaving him in the late 90's had made her strong- HE THEN FOUND HE TRULY NEEDED HER- The photos always shown Farrah to have a weak smile with Ryan, a sad, and almost desperate look. If you look back at photos of Farrah ,and Lee her smile was so bright, and secure. THINGS SEEMED TO CHANGE ALOT FROM THE EARLY 80'S UNTIL THE LATE 90'S-
TEXBOY
texboy I noticed a change in Farrah during the late 90's and around 2001 she seemed to be happy again. I noticed in parts of ALL Of Me she seemed different.I really believe you know who put her through alot of stress.I read somewhere that in the late 90's her dad wanted her to leave hollywood and move back home,and I think maybe that would have been the best thing for her. She could have returned to CA for work but I guess she really tried for Redmond's sake to be near his dad
ReplyDeleteI really hope Redmond gets better and gets his dad out of his life if he wants to save his own. I think stress may have been a huge factor in farrah getting sick,Im not a doctor but I think we would'nt be having this conversation if she would have either moved back home or kept that toxic has been at a healthy distance. nikki v
OK, So this bring's up a grey area, a crucial area in Farrah's personal life, which took her public. James Orr ? where is this man today ?
ReplyDeleteI put money on his knowing alot- Farrah was starting to become strong, speak her mind, and take on physical traits in defense in the area of James Orr, He was charged for assaulting her. WHERE IS THIS ORR- ???
Texboy
I really admire Griffin and I know it may be hurtful to have a dad like he does,but now he has his own family and that's all he needs.
ReplyDeleteOne day his dad will regret all he has done to tatum,Griffin,Redmond and Farrah and I hope they return the favor and not being there for him the same he was not there for them. Family or not if the person is toxic you have to let them go. nikki v
James Orr looked shady to me and in my opinion he looked like her had addiction problems but it's my opinion just something about that guy seemed a little off
ReplyDeleteLow Life is what he is.
ReplyDeletePersonally the networks will not touch on these subjects because they would rather get a interview with Ryan thinking the public will believe his bulls***. It would be nice for a respected show to bring these facts to light so more people would stop buying into this Hollywood fable that Ryan loved Farrah so much.
I know it's wrong to hate,but that Alana person I have to say I hate her
ReplyDeleteShe's a real piece of s**t,but I guess she know this is her only real time to be in the spotlight after her book fades she will be back to where she was which is Alana who???
Call it what you want but karma,God will see that this 15 minutes will only bring misfortune in the end.
Cashing in on a friend who died from a disease and Farrah really trusted her this is not only sick but really sad.
So go right ahead Alana cash in you have nothing else going for you,remember you did not even know how to use a camcorder a first
Wow for a 70yr old woman who did'nt know how to use a camcorder is sad. Is she getting botox on the brain too?? Be careful Alana that the money you make off of your so called friend does not go to your own trips to Germany!!!!!
Nikki, me too, Orr was a dark area in Farrah's life, I saw a man who looked like a user, in more ways than one-
ReplyDeleteFarrah worried me in that era, she for the first time looked gaunt, and very sad, .
Texboy
Nikki, yes she did come back to Texas ,
ReplyDeleteafter Orr was charged, Her Father flew back with her after orr's trial.
She would drive all over the state, and country by herself, and keep Greg Lott on speed dial. This was TEXAS FACT-
She could not take Redmond away from drug treatment, and was not allowed to visit for a 30 day period, and the sad thing was he was still a minor, still a child-
TEXBOY
annonymous- OK YES- I agree, but again in cases like this OLD BARBARA WALTERS would DIE before she eat crow- AND ANYMORE WHO IS CREDIBLE ? CNN, FOX, AND LOCAL NETWORKS POSSIBLY DO NOT KNOW YET !
ReplyDeleteSadly it took a crime, as in the NTL ENQUIRER
PAY OFF , To tell the truth- AND NO I DO NOT AGREE WITH THAT AREA, When a person is sick, but the rumor will ony become FALSE OR FACT by those who grab the story- THEN IN SNEAKS OLD BARBARA, retracting her version. Dateline, and those all follow from the source.
Basicly my own Texas news paper has as much retraction as the BIG NEWS VENUE- Again IN-TOUCH Get's my applause for DOING THE VERY FIRST COVER IN TRIBUTE issue of Farrah AS NEAR FAIR AS POSSIBLE With the passing of MJ ! So as the enquirer becomes old, and musty in a trash can
and land field, I will applaude those willing to take on this at this moment - I hope they slap Joan Dangerfield, and Mela Murphy right on the cover and tell us what they DID NOT DO TO PREVENT THIS MESS !
CREDIBLE---JUST WHO IS KNOWN CREDIBLE- Do we the people have to go and fight these damn users who have not yet released Farrah's last request, and let us know her diary is secured. I bet it is choke full of Alana, and Ryan !
wow how lucky those people are, they do not have cancer, but they are scab's to the legacy of Farrah, and they need to be removed from any futhure lies !
TEXBOY
You say Farrah was not allowed to visit Redmond for a 30 day period before, how do you know Ryan can't do the same now?
ReplyDeleteyeah texboy Farrah was going through something during that period.
ReplyDeleteI really believe Ryan messed her up emotionally. Even though she was gaunt she looked good she just needed to put on 10 pounds and would have looked stunning.But she got it back together and at the emmys in 2006 and the william shatner roast she looked divine and in Chasing Farrah she looked great. But she's with God now and her mom and sister and free from this crazy world.I think about her everyday and the joy she brought to my childhood,she was my hero as a kid and always will be. There were many messages she brought the last 3 years and i will do my best to apply them to my own life.
Im really looking forward to Gregg's story I feel it needs to be told finally.He has a lot of class and I can see why Farrah cared and kept him in her life for all these years.
One thing that I would like to know is where mela Murphy stands on all this with this tackless book coming out and that beast who is enjoying life in the Malibu ocean with other women so soon. Mela seemed to really like farrah and though I don't know her personally she and farrah were really good together and to me they were the best parts of Chasing Farrah,when Ryan was on I got bored he was so self absorbed and gross. But I really would like to know what Mela felt about the actions of those around Farrah in the last few months of her life.
How does someone have time to write during an illness? You wouldn't believe how some days you find a few minutes to sit down and type an email and the story just comes pouring out. Do I think Alana could have jotted stuff down or wrote a little every day? YES. I was the main caregiver for someone with cancer and also found time to "journal".
ReplyDeleteI just googled Ryan - he has CML which is Chronic Myelogenous Leukemia. CML is a clonal bone marrow stem cell disorder; meaning it's all over the body. It's supposedly in remission.
I do not know much about his diagnosis but I do know about Leukemia; I actually know someone with CML who also was in remission and the cancer has now affected various bones in this person's body.
Usually with cancers like this, they do stem cell transplants - using a sibling or child. The sibling is usually the best match. I don't know if Ryan's brother is in his life; if not, who is he going to turn to? His kids.
I've seen kids refuse to do life saving treatment for a parent.
The point mother of the year is that this was supposed to be Alana's best friend or sister as she likes to put it. Anyway back to the point the book/journals whatever is in bad taste and for financial gain,not to mention exploitation of a friend who struggled through a painful journey. You don't make a rushed book deal the day your FRIEND dies!
ReplyDeleteNikki v
I don't know if your taking Alana's side of this issue or not, but it's wrong to do that period! Could'nt she have the class to atleast wait 6 months to a year to release a book?
ReplyDeleteIm sorry but I find it in bad taste and selfish greed.
One thing she should have learned from Farrah was class,morals and loyality. This book has nothing to do with love or friendship this book is about greed and Ms.Stewart better hope the money she gets for exploitation does not go towards her trips to Germany at some point down the road!
ANNONYMOUS...Idid not say she was not-
ReplyDeleteI said she is most likley to not have been allowed.
After a child, or most addicts enter a treatment program, their is a 30 day period of no visitors, as for Ryan ? EXCUSE ME BUT THE FILM IS OVER 90 DAYS OLD- COUNT THE DAYS- PLUS RYAN as well was convicted on the same drug charges- EXCUSE ME FOR NOT WANTING TO COUNT BACK 4 YEARS- 3 OF WHICH THIS STORY WAS BEING MADE. The report on Ryan not visiting is less than 5 days old-
TEXBOY
My feeling all along is Alana had a ghost writer, and what we did not see in the film was taken from Farrahs diarie, plus remember Farrah's calender was shown as well, Alana is now an OPEN BOOK - BUT WITH NO SUBSTANCE- No I say Farrah would be angry.
ReplyDeleteFarrah told Judith Regan that not enough people were dead yet to write her own book. FARRAH LEFT A JOURNAL , JUDITH REGAN HAS ALOT OF MONEY AT HER DISPOSAL- So ????? We all know Alana had to meet Judith at some point-it's a nasty world, ALANA MIGHT NEED TO INVEST IN AN APPT IN GERMANY JUST TO ESCAPE THE MEDIA-
AND ALL THE REST TO FOLLOW.
TEXBOY
Nikki, I'm sorry if I'm upsetting you or anyone else. No, I am not taking anyone's side. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt. Until I see the book and see what the contents are, I do not want to pass judgment.
ReplyDeleteI do not know Alana; I know what I saw in "Farrah's Story"; and I saw that she was the one person by Farrah's side unlike RO. It takes a very strong person to be by a cancer patients side; or anyone with a chronic problem. Most people are there "for better or worst" but split when "the worst" hits.
I can tell stories of family members who said "I'm here if you need me" but are or were not. It usually falls on one person; and from what I saw, the one person with Farrah was Alana.
I don't know about RO. What I saw on TV; he appeared to love her; she appeared to love him but I wasn't convinced. His lack of support for their child makes me sway towards his caring about himself.
I know what it's like to be in her shoes; being there for someone like that & I also know drama that happens behind the scenes. It's very possible RO was "strong arming" and calling the shots. It's possible he tried to push Alana away the last few days but she wouldn't let him. It is my feeling that someone took Farrah's diaries out so that RO would not have them.
I've read that what we saw as "Farrah's Story" was not what Farrah envisioned; and that Alana tried to honor her wishes. I read Ryan wanted to make it look like a love story; but that Alana wouldn't allow it.. or only agreed to what we saw; unlike what he wanted/envisioned. I'll have to see if I can find where I read that.
Is it in bad taste that she's publishing a book? Probably; but I honestly don't think she's thinking right now.
When you lose someone like that, and I can probably tell you what Farrah's last days were like; you watch them go down hill so fast. Their breathing sounds like it hurts. You watch the catheter and see it gets darker & darker; you know their body is shutting down. If she was in diapers, you watch your loved one having to be like that.. and it hurts. I'll spare everyone the other details about what happens when a body shuts down.. By this time you are begging the God you pray to, to please take them and end their suffering.
Point is, it is very painful to watch someone pass. You're listening to their breathing; and then it gets quiet. You look at their chest to see if it will rise/fall, search for a pulse. It's like they took a breath in and never let it out. You stand there, in shock.. helpless.
The next few days are auto pilot. Phone calls, funeral arrangements, flowers, something to wear. Then they are put to rest and you go home; in a fog. I'm going to imagine Alana felt lost. She's feeling numb; not knowing what to do. Her days were spent next to Farrah, and with Farrah gone; that part of her life is no more.
I did a lot of writing after burying my loved one. There was so much raw emotion. What we saw on TV; I don't buy that the "worst" was shown; and unless someone has seen 1st hand what the worst is, they will never know what that is.
I think what we did see touched on some of the worst; but with allowing Farrah to keep some dignity.
I'll wait to make an opinion after I see what the contents are; as well as how much of the proceeds are donated to charity. Do I feel Alana should benefit from the book (assuming this is not Farrah's diary) yes; but just how much I'm not sure.
I say this because I don't know how much money Alana put out herself to stand by Farrah's side. You would be surprised at how costly it is to be a caregiver.
.. once the book gets published, I might have a different opinion. I'm trying to believe that she was a friend to Farrah. If she is/was not; she will have to answer to her maker.
Mother of the year,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much. Now if only everyone here could think with an open mind and an open heart and see that every story has two sides, we might get somewhere. I said I wasn't going to post anymore until this blog changed, but you've given me hope.
Debbie
Mother Of The Year,
ReplyDeleteI only know of the call we get that a loved one, or friend has died, and that feeling is a shock in itself.
Farrah was said to have been given heavy medication, or whatever in her final hours ? Dr.Piro made this statment, as someone ask to the extent of her suffering, can you tell me if you were able or not to have your Father medicated, and if it did in fact easy any of the pain, My mind races thinking of not getting air.
Saying that , Cancer does not work that way .
I ache for you and the pain you had to endure, and watch your father die from,and how it effected your son. Farrah touched my life, that was as close to a real death bed that I have faced so far.
So again I appreciate you shedding light on what it is like, no matter if they pass in a hospital or at home, the dignity is the one thing that has to be a priority. As Alana brings a book out, with Ryans blessing's saying nobody could do it like Alana I will only hope she gives others credit into this horror , as well as those we do not know in receipt of care, and time spent at her bedside.
I feel had Craig Nevius not been edited out of this in such a nasty manner, as well as others being removed, or not permitted to see Farrah I can say honestly this is why I am against Alana, Ryan, and the way we had to see Redmond ,and his emotions knowing all the time Farrah wanted him protected. Why did Redmond tell a judge that Farrah, his own Mother only weigh 86 pounds- and begg this judge to please let him go to see his mother, only to have Alana counter the story by saying AWE YOU KNOW, KID'S SAY THINGS AND HE DID NOT KNOW-This is where I started to question Alana. I was taken back by what I saw, and how she reacted in a caring way.I remember the part in the German snow where they had the sno ball fight, and yes things seemed SOOOOOO much like sisters. That scene was touching. But , then as the death neared, and the BARBARA WALTER INTERVIEW AIRED I WAS SOMEHOW TAKEN BACK, JOSE EBER- Why was he not in the movie removing Farrahs hair, shaving her head, MELA MURPHY did a job I know so well,
I say shave the hair and do not allow the chemo to take it first- Mela was shorted in this 20/20 interview- this really threw me- Then Ryan telling the world he was willing to take and shake her head, to NODD YES TO MARRIAGE- This is when I felt something was terribly wrong. NO WEBSITE- TO MAKE GREG LOTT loke like a pusher of bad goods, and on Farrah's death bed their was only one legit to my knowledge place for us to leave well wishes.
This being a place done by Mike Pingel, then after DR MILLER took on such a stunning position in representing Greg Lott, HERE- RIGHT HERE -We get the 3RD DEGREE If we write just how we feel, and to be cut and dry, it is after all not alana, and ryan friendly- So , as you suffered, and have been kind enough to give me insight to the details let me say I have always loved your post, and this last post is a very powerful insight into what RYAN, ALANA, MELA, and DR.PIRO witnessed, Kate Jackson drove Farrah numerous times to treatment, a few others with no motive drove Farrah to treatment, and they have remained unsung heros- Why was it Alana , who today received billing as director, right beside Craig Nevius in the Emmy nomination ? This is why I still doubt alot, and no matter what Alanas book has to say, nothing will shake her image as the HERO- when so many other's the world over were involved, and offered to help.
Those names have not been mentioned yet, and like you have witnessed and I will possibly witness when the chips are down, the phone dosent ring- This was Farrah Fawcett- I cannot buy the fact that their were only 2 people and a hairdresser who are responsible for her last days when she was taking those final breath's of death.
As GOD IS MY WITNESS, IN NO WAY IS THE TO BE DISRESPECTFUL TO YOU, AND THE HORROR YOU SAW IN YOUR OWN FAMILY- Please anytime share ,and know I want to learn,as you and Angel Charlie
have shown me so much.
TEXBOY----WHO CANT SPELL ! But trys darn hard.
Anonymous emotionally ranted:
ReplyDelete"Nice try, but you're gonna have to do better than that...In Touch magazine and BILD??? These are TABOIDS, not reliable news sources.
Could the brunette you keep mentioning be the same one in the video on TMZ.com under 'Ryan O'Neal "It's hard to Believe" that he introduces to the camera man as "Stephanie, that works for me, along with his granson, Shawn McEnroe"??"
Bild magazine is one of the top magazines in Germany, like Der Spiegel.
It's been around for decades.
It's not a tabloid.
Bild reported:
"Ryan O'Neal has been spotted numerous times with a mysterious brunette on his arm since the death of his long-term partner Farrah Fawcett"
"Now new photos have emerged of the couple walking arm in arm like a pair of newly weds."
Inside Edition, a show like Entertainment Tonight and Access Hollywood, reported:
"Inside his limo, O'Neal was also seen sharing a kiss with an unknown woman."
I happened to be watching on July 1 when that report aired and there was O'Neal caught on video in a tight embrace with the "mystery brunette" and in the back seat of the limo, which I assume was rented for Farrah's funeral, kissing a women.
I saw the TMZ "Ryan O'Neal It's hard to believe" vid on their webpage.
O'Neal was alone and was holding a drink in a paper cup as he gets in his car and drives away.
I just pass on the news of interest.
I don't know O'Neal and don't engage in venomous gossiping.
If fact, I pointed out there was too much Hate Stewart and O'Neal gossiping.
If a news organization makes a report that O'Neal is simply overcome with grief from Farrah's loss and is unable to function anymore and needs our help to carry on, I'll post that too.
Until such a report is made, all I've said is that I find O'Neal's claims of his love and grief for Farrah hard to believe.
I saw the TMZ thing again.
ReplyDeleteI missed the Stephanie thing since she scurried past quickly.
http://www.tmz.com/2009/07/02/ryan-oneal-farrah-fawcett-video/
ReplyDeletehttp://www.tmz.com/2009/07/02/ryan-oneal-farrah-fawcett-video/print
http://www.tmz.com/videos?autoplay=true&mediaKey=a9c12ea3-98e7-4a05-9a38-a8ee36719488
ANGEL CHARLIE,
ReplyDeleteYou are correct. The night of Farrahs Funeral,
my best friend of many years called, Not one to follow Farrah, but did in the past year, and said, HAVE YOU SEEN RYAN TONIGHT ON TV-
I had not, He said he was alone and blurted out to himself WHAT A F---ING PIG. I then saw it later- Plus the clothing on some was exact to the few hours prior to his in the car, drunk romp- NO EXCUSE WILL EVER BE GOOD ENOUGH TO DEFENDE THIS . He is a pig, just a bloated pig, and to be in remession from his form of cancer this is ever strager, ONEAL IS LOST RIGHT. Farrah cant bail him out anymore. I still want to know who osted his own bail when they cuffed and took him in for the drugs he said were Redmonds- said he was keeping them frm Red- lolololol toss them in the ocean, ---
HIS MIGSHOT AS FARRAH LAY ILL- YEP REAL LOVE-
TEXBOY
mother of the year no your not upsetting me at all.You entitled to buy the book it's your right. My problem with the book is exploitation of a serious disease and a woman who fought a brave painful battle. Alana saw what Farrah went through and we as a public saw the documentary so we know cancer is not a day at the park. This is betrayal of a friend who put her trust in Alana and to think she makes a book deal so quick. It's a tasteless thing to do not to mention all the other things that witch has done in the past few months. I personally think Alana was jealous of Farrah. She could never in a million years have what farrah had. Alana is a step below a unnamed source from a tabloid. She's vile
ReplyDeleteThis is from a message board thread from Farrah's imdb.com page.
ReplyDeleteIt's about an acting seminar that Farrah was the star of a few years ago.
Farrah supposedly owned the videotape of it.
Was it ever released?
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000396/board/thread/142897105
"Most people do not know this but Farrah held a very special seminar a few years ago at SAG.
Only about 150 people got to be there for this very special everning.
I was one of the lucky ones.
A moderator asked Farrah many questions that the audience had written on index cards.
The event was videotaped and I had called SAG to see when the tape would be available.
They told me because of Farrah's status as a superstar she was given possesion of the videotape.
Something that other really famous and top name actors were not given.
I had written her and asked her to make it available.
It was an incredible insight into Farrah.
I do hope one day it will be available for all her fans.
They could even make it a tv special maybe on cable.
Farrah was very charming, looked beautiful, was kooky and smart as a whip.
When I have time I will share some of the stories she told.
It's so hard to think this vibrant woman is no longer with us.
Especially after seeing her so full of life and looking the picture of great health.
This would be a huge treat for all her fans.
She shared so much and focused on her acting."
Google 'German tabloid' and you will get many links to BILD: Largest daily German tabloid.
ReplyDeleteBild has been a major newsmagazine for decades in Germany.
ReplyDeleteIt was called Bild Zeitung which means Picture Newspaper.
It covers news as well as celebrity stuff.
All you have to do is go to the bild.de website and see that they cover major news stories.
They're not a tabloid.
They've been around for decades.
You obviously has a political agenda.
Bild covered Farrah's treatment in Germany.
I posted a story under the Alana's Book topic here that Bild did on Farrah based on statements from one of her german doctors.
So, obviously Bild was aware of Farrah's Story, which is a big story. in Germany and they followed up on it by observing the activies of Mr. O'Neal.
YES, Angel Charlie is correct,
ReplyDeleteThe article is very accurate, and a good read,
unlike surface ENQUIRER trash.
Go back to ALANA'S BOOK in the blog.
ANGEL CHARLIE listed a number of great sites.
TEXBOY
Just so I know I am looking at the same 'news source' as you---the main headlines today are: Michael Jackson, Lady Gaga, Hooters and Intimate waxing?? You're right---totally NOT a tabloid.
ReplyDeleteoh yes annonymous, and somewhere in the issue
ReplyDeleteIVANA TRUMP is building the tallest CASINO Las Vegas has ever seen.
Are you reading the correct issue , I did not see that.
T-BOY
If you go to the address you gave,bild.de, those are indeed the headlines on their homepage for today.
ReplyDeleteOK, So Farrah is up against alot of good nominations.
ReplyDeleteAnyone have a guess at her chances of taking the AWARD ?
Sad is MJ-FOX is nimonated as well, so how is this going to play out. ANY THOUGHTS ?
T-BOY
I PRAY CRAIG NEVIES, and THOSE ARE ALLOWED TO ACCEPT IN THE CASE SHE WINS .
ReplyDeleteSo as the days roll by I also bet Alana kisses his rear ,trys to make up for her part in the way things played out, just so she can again be a SPOTLIGHT HERO.
T-BOY
GOSH- Lady GAGA is something- BUT IT IS ALL FACT- She is dating Barron Sneed, and they are going public, as for Michael ? well I am not a big fan but may he someday rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteTEXBOY
ALANA needs to return to kennel
ReplyDeleteNikki v,
ReplyDeleteDid you absorb anything from 'mother of the years' post? You lose all credibility when you comment like that.
Anonymous, you're a waste of time.
ReplyDeleteHeadlines on Bild.de include the Iranian nuke threat being 6 months or less, new Iranian street protests, the terrorist attack in Indonesia, and the Cold War space race to the moon and the 40th anniversary of Apollo 11.
That's not the typical tabloid fare.
And so what anyway.
O'Neal was caught on video fooling around with women the night of Farrah's funeral by the Inside Edition show.
Textboy, gonna try to answer some of your questions.. I don't have a lot of time; as you saw I wasn't around today lol
ReplyDeleteA lot depends on the medication. IMO, I think Farrah was medicated.. my dad did not want to be, while he was not able to speak; he did blink his eyes. I gave him just enough morphine for his breathing, but not a full dose, he did not need it. He was not in a hospital and depending on who was in charge of Farrah's care; it's really hard to say. If it was doctors, they probably had her knocked out enough unless Ryan or someone said not to. A lot of people hallucinate on Morphine. I think Farrah has been medicated since Red came home to see her.
I did not care for the scene with Red & I'm also not sure how Farrah would feel either. I also do not know if Red gave his consent; he's an adult, I'd imagine they would have to. IMO, I think it might give him comfort later on; so he'll be able to relive the last time he saw his mom. Yes, it is going to be painful but if he makes lemonade with the lemons he's been given.. and I'd imagine Farrah would want that; he was there with her, and yes, I think she knew he was there.
As far as Craig.. it pisses me off to read it & it made a big impression on me and how I think of Ryan.
I'd assume Red now owns part of Farrah's story? He can always do what he wants later on. Maybe he can make his mother proud by redoing it the way she wanted it. Maybe it will open doors for him & turn him around. Things happen for a reason. I do not know why this all happened but you can bet there was a reason.
I remember reading about Farrah's weight. I do not think she was that low and do think Red was exaggerating; I also feel Alana tried to protect Farrah; trying to get the public to think she was not dying when she was.
I'll come back tomorrow and try to give some insight into the last part of your post to me where you mentioned the others taking Farrah for treatment but only Alana got "credit".
~MOTY
Anonymous 2:12 pm,my comment on Alana has nothing to with seeking credibility and mother of the year and I simply were explaining our views on Alana's book,I gave mine and she gave hers nothing wrong with that. My comment on Alana was not meant to be taken serious that she needs to return to the kennel. It was a lighthearted silly comment nothing more nothing less.
ReplyDeleteWith that said I think we can move on now.( wow)
Not sure if anyone saw Access Hollywood's premiere of Farrah's Story
ReplyDeletehttp://tinyurl.com/AccessHwoodFarrahPremiere
Listen to what her German Dr says. It's my opinion they knew she probably wasn't going to make it.
If you go to the link above, you'll see it's Alana that knows Farrah's medical; not Ryan.
ReplyDeleteQuoting Textboy - Kate Jackson drove Farrah numerous times to treatment, a few others with no motive drove Farrah to treatment, and they have remained unsung heros- Why was it Alana , who today received billing as director, right beside Craig Nevius in the Emmy nomination ?
Sorry I didn't get back to comment. To give you insight, I have to go back to a place that is hard to go to. I also want to remain semi-anonymous.
Think of it like this; Farrah was sick for a little over 3 years - Oct/Nov 2006. She started taping May 2007 from what I see. What i know of this - it was Alana with the camera; so I assume she was by Farrah's side most of the time and I wouldn't doubt that she was on Farrah's information sheet - where the Dr can speak to a designated person if need be. I assume that Alana was there for almost everything.
I do not know the exact details of Farrah's treatment but I'd imagine that Alana couldn't be there some days; let's face it, she has her own life & during the course of the 3 years of Farrah's diagnosis/illness - one would assume that there were other people helping. The same could be said of my dad.
I was mainly the one, there were a few days I could not be there - my son & hubby were. There was the rare occasion one of my siblings did. If I was sending out a mass email to let everyone know his status - should I include that so & so drove him on one occasion?
You figure with Farrah she was sick over 1,000 days - if someone took her 5 times out of 1,000 days - how do you say that?
Farrah Fawcett's friend Alana Stewart was by her side for almost all of her illness, as well as long time "love" Ryan; except for the 5 times that so & so was there.
In the bigger picture of it, yes, there was probably other people; we saw some of those people on what was shown as "Farrah's Story" - as a viewer, I assume that her other friends also chipped in. Now, if I was one of her other friends that took her a handful of times, do I say to the press - hey, no fair Alana & Ryan are getting all of the press.. I drove Farrah 5 times..
If I was writing a book of what I went through, yeah I would mention the times I couldn't be there and who was. Let's hope Alana does.
Listen up guys, Ryan O'Neal gave an interview with Leslie Bennetts for September's Vanity Fair. It seems as he's done some soul searching and he seems to being quite candid about his time with Farrah and his children. here's an excerpt of the interview. Check your local newsstands as it should be there now, they usually put the next months issues out early. And Annoymous I wouldn't gloat so fast about your loyalty to Mr. O'Neal and Alana. It seems he admits to almost everything that has been discussed on this board and THEN some. I think Texboy was right or whoever said Farrah stayed because of Redmond. It's a shame. That's why she never married Ryan. She should have stayed with Lee Majors:
ReplyDeleteVanity Fair has split September covers - Michael Jackson and Farrah Fawcett - and the explosive Fawcett article by Leslie Bennetts offers a remarkable, on-the-record example of the father-daughter dynamic between Farrah's on-off lover Ryan O'Neal and his daughter Tatum (who he calls a bitch), as well as insight into his relationship with Farrah.
O'Neal spoke to Bennetts and characterized himself as "a hopeless father." He offered the below example from Farrah's funeral as a reason why:
"I had just put the casket in the hearse and I was watching it drive away when a beautiful blonde woman comes up and embraces me," Ryan told me. "I said to her, 'You have a drink on you? You have a car?' She said, 'Daddy, it's me--Tatum!' I was just trying to be funny with a strange Swedish woman, and it's my daughter. It's so sick."
"That's our relationship in a nutshell," Tatum said when I asked her about it. "You make of it what you will." She sighed. "It had been a few years since we'd seen each other, and he was always a ladies' man, a bon vivant."
Ryan also talks about the demise of his relationship with Farrah in 1998, when the pair initially split. He cites Farrah's menopause and talks about subsequently bedding a much-younger woman.
The whole article is not online, but the issue is on newsstands Wednesday in New York and LA, and a few more remarkable excerpts are here on Vanity Fair's website.
The magazine's press release on the article is below, and he says he regrets some of his children and son Griffin says his father gave him cocaine at age 11:
End of article:
ReplyDeleteNEW YORK, N.Y.--Ryan O'Neal speaks extensively with Vanity Fair contributing editor Leslie Bennetts about his relationship with Farrah Fawcett, and his family struggles, both before and after her death, and tells Bennetts he is full of regrets, saying, "I wish I could do it over with [Fawcett]. I would have been much kinder, more understanding, more mature. I'd lose some of the savagery. I don't know how she got cancer; maybe some of it was me. She wouldn't even have a diet soda!"
Bennetts reports that one of the reasons for their split, according to O'Neal, was that Fawcett "was going through some kind of change.... I didn't have a change of life; I was always a jerk. But they're hard work, these divas; I was sick of it, and I was unappreciated." He says he felt that Fawcett didn't like him very much, "so I excused myself, and I was lucky enough to meet this young girl. She was more a daughter to me than a lover, and my own daughter had flown the coop, so here was this replacement." Despite their split, they eventually managed to come back together when O'Neal was diagnosed with chronic myelogenous leukemia in 2001 (it has since been controlled with the drug Gleevec). "I talked to her every day," O'Neal says. "We pulled apart, but we never popped loose."
O'Neal tells Bennetts that six weeks before her death Fawcett asked him, "Am I going to make it?," and he said, "Sure, baby--and if you don't, I'll go with you," to which Fawcett replied, "Stop the Gleevec." He didn't give up his medication, Bennetts writes, but was at Fawcett's bedside when she passed away.
According to O'Neal, Fawcett's apparent softness was deceptive, and she "had a stubborn streak of pride and righteousness," he says. They would fight about "anything and everything," and they "started fighting about [their son] Redmond by the time he was three," he tells Bennetts.
O'Neal calls Fawcett "provincial in many ways," and tells Bennetts that he thinks she may have preferred "a picket-fence kind of life, cooking and doing her art," rather than the strain of Hollywood. Aging was hard for her, he says. "In my mind, if I say, 'You're beautiful,' that should be enough. But she was very high-maintenance. She took a long time getting ready to go anywhere, and that started to drive me nuts. We were late to see the president of the United States, and she was his dinner partner! So we were an hour late for Ronald Reagan."
Griffin O'Neal is suspicious of his father's newfound devotion to Fawcett, telling Bennetts, "All those crocodile tears!... My dad's only goal was to make sure he would be in the will. It was so disgustingly transparent as soon as he found out she was terminal. I consider him a vulture presiding over a carcass. Ryan thought he was going to get everything." When asked about Griffin's charge that Ryan was trying to get Fawcett's money, the elder O'Neal says, "I hate him! He knows I have money. I made a tremendous amount of money on real estate, more than I deserve."
Last part of article:
ReplyDeleteO'Neal is brutal on the subject of his parenting and his children, telling Bennetts, "I'm a hopeless father. I don't know why. I don't think I was supposed to be a father. Just look around at my work--they're either in jail or they should be." He doesn't talk to any of his kids except for Redmond, whom he visits in jail. "I was in touch with them for years, and I was a mess," he says of the others. "I'm not in touch with them now, and I've never been happier." When asked if he's sorry he had children, he nods, Bennetts reports. "A couple of them I would take back," he says.
O'Neal tells Bennetts that he didn't recognize his daughter, Tatum, at Fawcett's funeral. "I had just put the casket in the hearse and was watching it drive away," he says, "when a beautiful blonde woman comes up and embraces me. I said to her, 'You have a drink on you? You have a car?' She said, 'Daddy, it's me--Tatum!' I was just trying to be funny with a strange Swedish woman, and it's my daughter. It's so sick."
When Bennetts asks Tatum about the exchange, she replies, "That's our relationship in a nutshell.... You make of it what you will." She sighed. "It had been a few years since we'd seen each other, and he was always a ladies' man, a bon vivant."
O'Neal fumes when asked about Tatum's autobiography, saying "She wrote a book--bitch! How dare she throw our laundry in the street for money!... She didn't call after Farrah's show. She'll have to explain that."
Tatum tells Bennetts that her father "has every right to be angry about the book; no parent wants to hear their kid saying shitty things about them... But what I wrote in the book was true. I've got a battle with drugs, but I'm a strong, independent person, and I fight for myself, and my father and I butt heads. When I was 16 years old, he and Farrah moved in together, and after that I saw my dad periodically, and that took a long time for me to get over. Would I do that to my kids? No, but I don't think Farrah was responsible for that. I truly thought Farrah was inspirational and beautiful and kind. Anyway, it's past; I've moved on. I'm older now, and I forgive him."
O'Neal claims Griffin has sold salacious information about the family to the tabloids, a charge that Griffin denies--"Absolutely not! Not one thing!," Griffin tells Bennetts. "My father is afraid of me because I know the truth," Griffin says. "That's the part that absolutely scares him to death." Griffin suggests that the family's problems might have something to do with the fact that Ryan plied his children with drugs--"My father gave me cocaine when I was 11 and insisted I take it," he tells Bennetts--and was prone to uncontrollable rages. "He was violent all the way through my upbringing," says Griffin. "He was a very abusive, narcissistic psychopath. He gets so mad he can't control anything he's doing."
The September issue of Vanity Fair hits newsstands in New York and Los Angeles August 5 and nationally August 11.
italia, thank you for posting it. I saw parts on people.com but did not read as much as you posted.
ReplyDeleteWhen I read what I did at people, my 1st thought was he's read this blog; I'd made that joke about Ryan & HPV; wonder if he saw it before I deleted it?
I'm disgusted about what he said about his kids.
What a horrible father.
I'm sorry Farrah has to share another magazine with MJ.